Uma kuziwa ekusebenzeni, ukunethezeka kuyisihluthulelo. Ukugqoka izingubo ezimpintshayo kakhulu, ezixegayo kakhulu, noma ezingakhululekile nje kungenza ukuzivocavoca okuhle noma ukujima okubi.Amabhulukwe okugijimaziye zanda kakhulu kokubili amadoda nabesifazane eminyakeni yamuva, enikeza inhlanganisela ephelele yokunethezeka nesitayela. Kule bhulogi, sizohlola ukuthi kungani ibhulukwe lokugijima labesifazane elinamaphakethe kuyisinqumo esiphezulu sokujima okunethezekile.
Okokuqala,amabhulukwe agijimayo abesifazanezikhululekile ngokumangalisayo. Zenziwe ngezinto ezingasindi, eziguquguqukayo ezihamba nomzimba wakho kunokukukhawulela. Athambile futhi anethezekile eduze nesikhumba, okuwenza afaneleke ukugijima, ukuhamba, neminye imisebenzi enomthelela omkhulu. Noma ngabe ushaya ijimu, ukugijima, noma ufunda amakilasi okuqina, amabhulukwe okugijima azokugcina ukhululekile kukho konke ukujima kwakho.
Esinye isici esihle samabhulukwe okugijima abesifazane amaphakethe. Izitayela eziningi zifaka amaphakethe ukuze uphathe kalula ifoni yakho, okhiye, nezinye izinto ezibalulekile ngaphandle kokuphatha isikhwama esikhulu. Lokhu kuwusizo ikakhulukazi kubagijimi abadinga ukugcina izandla zabo zikhululekile ngenkathi besohambeni. Amabhulukwe okugijima amadoda nawo anethezekile futhi anezikhwama, kodwa amabhulukwe okugijima abesifazane anezikhwama ahlukahlukene futhi anomphetho.
Ekugcineni, amabhulukwe okugijima abesifazane asesitayeleni. Atholakala ngemibala ehlukahlukene, amaphethini nezitayela ukuze uthole ipheya elifanele isitayela sakho somuntu siqu. Lokhu kubalulekile ngoba uma ubukeka umuhle, uzizwa kahle. Ukuzizwa uqiniseka futhi ukhululekile egiyeni lakho lokufaneleka kungakunikeza ugqozi oludingayo ukuze uqedele ukujima okunzima.
Sengiphetha, ibhulukwe lokugijima labesifazane elinamaphakethe liyisinqumo esiphezulu sokujima okunethezekile. Zenziwe ngezinto ezingasindi, eziguquguqukayo ezihamba nomzimba wakho futhi zinikeza ukuzwa okuthambile, nokunethezeka. Amaphakethe akwenza kube lula ukuthwala izinto zakho ezibalulekile ngaphandle kokuthwala isikhwama esikhulu, futhi atholakala ngezitayela nemibala ehlukahlukene, okuqinisekisa ukuthi uzothola ipheya elifanele isitayela sakho somuntu siqu. Ngokuzayo lapho ukhetha ukuthi uzogqokani ekuzilolongeni kwakho, cabanga ukutshala kubhangqaabesifazane abagijimayo bephethe amaphakethe—ngeke uzisole.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Jun-07-2023